Gifts that Say “I’m Thinking of You” to a Grieving Friend

We all want to support our friends when they’re grieving, but we don’t always know how to.
We want our friend to know that they’re loved, surrounded by people who care for them, and most of all, that they’re in our thoughts.
One way to do this is by giving them a sympathy gift. Able to provide a little comfort and sense of peace during a time of need, sympathy gifts can have a meaningful impact on those who are going through the death of a family member.
Looking for a gift for your grieving friend? Here are three ideas that let them know you’re thinking of them:
Handwritten Card
A handwritten card may seem simple, but it can be a powerful way to show you care. Taking the time to write down a nice message for your friend can comfort them and show them that you’re in their corner. In your message, you might express your condolences, share a fond memory of the person they lost, or simply remind them that you are there to support them.
Consider personalizing the card with a special touch—perhaps a photo of the two of you or a small drawing that represents a cherished memory. The act of writing by hand evokes a sense of sincerity that digital messages often lack. Your friend can then revisit the card when they need a reminder of your love and support.
Fingerprint Keepsakes
Help your friend continue to feel close to the person they’ve lost with a Fingerprint Keepsake. Each time they hold their gift close, they’ll feel the lines and grooves of their Loved One’s fingerprint pattern and be reminded that their spirit lives on through them.
There are a variety of different Keepsakes that can be engraved with a fingerprint, including Keychains, Pocket Knives. Bookmarks, Teddy Bears, and even Christmas Ornaments. Different styles of Jewelry can also be personalized with a fingerprint, creating a beautiful memorial that can be worn every day.
Quality Time
Along with a physical gift, the gift of quality time spent together can be incredibly special to your friend as they’re grieving. Grieving can be an isolating experience, and one of the most comforting things you can do is simply be present for them.
Some ideas for quality time include going for a walk, watching a favorite movie, bringing them a cup of coffee, or even attending their Loved One’s funeral service with them. If you don’t live near your grieving friend, a phone call can still do wonders for lifting their mood and helping them feel fully supported.
Being There for Your Friend is a True Gift
It’s hard to watch our friends go through difficult days, but by being there for your friend, you can help them begin to heal and find peace. You can be a light in their darkness and a safe place to go while they navigate grief.
Thank you for all you do for your friend. If you’re looking for more ways to support someone who is grieving, check out these resources:
A Complete Guide to Sympathy Gifts for Family, Friends, and Acquaintances
24 Ways to Offer Support and Comfort to Someone Who is Grieving
How to Support a Grieving Friend Who Lives Far Away