Meaningful Ways to Honor a Late Loved One During Autumn
In autumn, busy schedules start to slow as we reflect on the changing season. As leaves turn golden and weather cools, we often find that we have a bit more time for reflection.
When summer vacations end and we set our sights on the comforting holidays ahead, autumn provides the perfect opportunity to remember a Loved One you miss.
Whether your Loved One recently died or you’ve been without them for years, you can honor their memory this autumn with these meaningful and seasonal memorialization ideas:
Create a Seasonal Floral Arrangement
The golds, reds, and oranges of autumn make a beautiful canvas for creating an autumnal floral arrangement. Put together a bunch of your Loved One’s favorite seasonal flowers and display them in your home as a reminder of their continued presence.
Visit Their Graveside
Take advantage of the beautiful seasonal weather by visiting your late Loved One’s resting place. You can invite others to join or simply go on your own for a little quiet reflection. Consider bringing a small gift—like an autumnal floral arrangement you make—to leave at their headstone as a symbol of you always being with them.
Wear Memorial Jewelry
One of the most meaningful and tangible ways to carry your late Loved One with you is by wearing Jewelry made from their fingerprint. From Pendants to Rings to Lapel Pins and more, these comforting mementoes are a beautiful addition to the formal styles you wear to seasonal events—or can be worn every day as a way to feel your Loved One near.
Light a Candle
As days grow shorter, many turn to candles to bring a little warmth and light to their home. This year, choose a special candle and light it in memory of your Loved One. Consider choosing an autumnal scent they enjoyed or a beautifully carved candle they would have admired. As the light flickers, you’ll be reminded of their life and the brightness they can still bring to you now.
Donate Old Belongings
If you’re still holding on to your Loved One’s belongings, consider sorting through them and finding pieces to donate to those who need them. It may be hard to part with these physical reminders of your Loved One, but the gift of blankets, socks, and sweaters can go a long way to caring for and comforting others during cold months.
Plant a Memory Tree
Did you know that late autumn is a great time of year to plant many species of trees? Choose a spot in your backyard, a tree, and a weekend then invite other family members to join you in planting a tree in memory of your shared Loved One. Considering having everyone say a few words and adding a memorial plaque nearby. As you watch the tree grow for years to come, you’ll always think of your Loved One.
Listen to Their Favorite Music
A person’s favorite music can tell you so much about them, and help you feel close to them again after they’re gone. Put on your headphones and go for a walk, enjoying the messages in the music as you move through autumn’s beautiful backdrop.
Bake a Favorite Treat
Homemade baked goods are synonymous with the autumn season. If your Loved One had a favorite treat—whether pumpkin bread, apple pie, or any other seasonal staple—bake up a batch to share with family and friends. The act of baking the chosen dessert will help you spend some intentional time thinking of your Loved One. Plus, by giving to others, you’ll help share their memory.
Attend Remembrance Ceremonies
Many cultures and religions have rituals dedicated to honoring Loved Ones during the autumn months. Choose one that is meaningful to you and join a local ceremony. By gathering with others going through loss, you’ll help find community and healing.
Feel Close to Your Loved One All Year Long
Autumn is a special time of year that provides unique opportunities for honoring a late Loved One. However, it’s just important to find times throughout the entire year to share their memory and continue their legacy.
Need a little inspiration? Get started with these resources for feeling close to your Loved One during the year:
· 10 Creative Ideas for Remembering Your Late Loved One on Their Birthday
· Helpful Resources for Navigating Grief at Easter
· Memorial Day Traditions that Honor Your Late Loved One
· Thankful for You: How to Stay Connected to Your Late Loved One During Thanksgiving
